Dear all you niggas that think you’re nice guys
First things first, you are NOT!, i repeat NOT!, a nice guy just because you have been on the latter side of a love triangle, have gotten friend-zoned, or haven’t “gotten the girl” I’m sick of everyone milking that shit for what it isn’t. “What’s a definitive standard of being a nice guy?” you might ask. Well sir, there are many extents to which a male can pertain to the category of nice guy, but the general idea is a man who cares about ALMOST EVERYONE that is their FRIEND (exceptions being people that have fucked them over, or just people they don’t like. but the benefit of the doubt is most often given first and foremost) and will go out of their way to assist these people in any way asked, also, just a generally pleasant, friendly guy. The common misrepresentation is “the guy who will never confess his feeling to the girl” which is prevalent among many but not always the situation.
Honestly i challenge each and every one of you that believe you’re “nice guys” to get into a relationship or to analyze yourselves pre-relationship and ask yourself, would you really “never do that to her”, “never lie to her”, “never look at other women”, “never talk about exes”, “never love another more”, “never hurt her feelings”
in no way am i attempting to defend players, man-whores, or pigs but honestly ask yourself before you claim something you’re not.
(Source: nicholasnery, via nicholasnery)
